I KNOW love.
I recognize respect.
I have learned my value.
I have been fortunate enough to find someone who has taught me what love is, I have seen it, and I know how it looks. How it feels. How to recognize it when it shows up.
I am a better leader, friend, mentor, and mother because of it. I am a better HUMAN because of it. I am grateful for the ability to notice it, feel it, see it, and have it.
Because of this, I know what these things do NOT look like.
I have spent this morning in an excercise of reflectiion of my both personal and professional relationships.
There were quite a few that I mistook for love or respect when it was something else all together that I could not name or label.
In my heart I have apologized for my ignorance and mistakes that came from it.
How about you love yourself enough to do an assessment of your relationships past and present.
What did you learn?
How have you benefited from them?
How are they serving you now?
It’s a tough exercise. However, it is worth it.
Published by Quackenbush Coaching LLC
With more than 20 years of experience across education, medicine, hospitality, finance, and the creative sector, I bring a depth of insight to clients from the C-suite to the studio, from the operating room to the classroom. I am Jewel Quackenbush, Master Certified Coach, specializing in leadership, executive coaching, career transitions, and life coaching. My methodology is rooted in cognitive behavioral principles and my signature WATCH framework: Words, Actions, Thoughts, Character, and Habits ,creating the foundation for real progress, confident decision-making, and sustainable growth.
I work with people who feel stuck, leaders navigating new responsibilities, professionals moving into different careers, and organizations seeking stronger cultures. Whether the goal is to sharpen strategy, give authentic feedback, build resilience, or create a clear path forward, I equip my clients with practical tools, proven strategies, and a mindset for success. My approach is both professional and personal, empowering individuals and teams to move beyond barriers and thrive in any environment.
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